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Thursday, July 24, 2008

goodbye nepal!

today is our last full day in nepal - mike and i will be leaving to thailand tomorrow to spend some time with my extended family while the rest of the team heads back to the US.  it's amazing how quickly our time here has come to an end.  i think everyone is definitely ready to leave and take hot showers, sleep outside of mosquito nets and eat something other than daal bhat.  many of the team members are gunning for a starbucks frappacino once they hit the hong kong airport!

but i have to say that this trip has been so much smoother for most of us repeat visitors ... though living here in nepal has its discomforts and challenges for us as pampered americans, i felt so much more prepared for this trip - being in kathmandu and pokhara felt familiar - a home away from home.  and being with our host families in both cities has been a blessing as we all felt even more emotionally invested in our relationships with our nepali family.  the next step for all of us is learning more of the nepali language.

and, the students have just been amazing in how boldly and quickly they dove into nepali life and culture.  the family adores them, along with the orphans.  and many of them are talking about wanting to return to nepal again!  always a sign of a good trip. 

i have many more thoughts about what we have been doing here - but we have much to accomplish in a short amount of time today - so i will write more later.  today, we are going to throw the orphans a birthday party, complete with a chocolate cake.  since none of them have official birthdays, we have now designated today as the day!

signing off for now! 



Thursday, July 17, 2008

Namaste from Nepal!

Namaste, friends!

Here I am in beautiful Nepal.  I arrived only four days ago, but it already feel like I've been here for 4 weeks!  I forget how slowly time moves over here.  Anyway, I was blessed with a very smooth flight where I was able to catch up on all the hours of sleep that I missed in the weeks before (I think I probably got about 15+ hours of sleep between all of my flights and stops in airports).  I practically fell asleep every chance I got - and I mean the dreaming, mouth hanging open in public type of sleep.  Good stuff! 

Anyway, you are probably less interested in my sleep update than you are in my life here in Nepal!  So, onwards!  I arrived in Kathmandu in the evening where I was greeted with tikka and warm hugs from my adopted Nepali family in Kathmandu.  Almost everyone was asleep by then, and I was pretty excited to get some shut-eye in my beloved mosquito tent.  But the next day, I was awoken by the adorable voices of the orphans and children of the HOPE House.  Happily, they all recognized me from last year!  Perhaps Mike had prepped them for my arrival, but I was greeted with Namastes and hugs all around.  It was so fun to see them again and see how much they have grown.

Rajesh and Surya have definitely grown in size and wit - their mischievous spirits were still so evident!  And, Sushila, is as cute as ever and now has a full head of hair!  And she has progressed from being the only girl in the house last year now to be accompanied with a new girl orphan - Sriracha (pronounced like the sauce), who is adorable as well, and immediately proclaimed me her "buddy" as I walked them to school.  And Sabin, who Mike and I definitely have an extra soft spot for, is just absolutely adorable - the only thing is he, unlike the others, hasn't grown much since we last saw him - he's definitely small for a boy of 7 - he looks almost as small as a 5 year old because he apparently hasn't been handling food well over the past year.  It was wonderful to see them so well adjusted and thriving in the HOPE House.  You can tell that they feel at home there.  

Mike's high school students are doing so well in Nepal too - they have adjust to Nepali life and culture in an amazingly fast pace - definitely faster than us old adults!  My first day in Kathmandu was their last day of their week of teaching at a local Nepali school - they did such a great job and you could tell that they put their hearts and souls in their lesson plans.  They even came up with games to teach them about addition and multiplication, and bought prizes for their students.  I think they were such blessings to their students, and I know that the students definitely were great blessings to them as well!

Mike and I also got to do an interview of an IDP widow that day - she was an amazing inspiration as she was such an empowered and inspiring woman.  Her husband was killed by the Maoists in 2004, and since then she has created a support group for widows whose husbands who were killed by both Maoists and Royalists - since they were all in the same boat.  It's amazing that she fought the urge to place blame and take sides.  She has since completed her SLC - which is her high school education - and hopes to go on for further studies.  I look forward to collecting more stories like this to bring back home.  It's amazing to be in the presence of such inspiring women!

We also had the chance to meet with two American workers who live and serve in Nepal - it was great to hear about other organizations and ministries here.  And this was all just day 1! 

The very next day, we traveled to Pokhara to see more of our adopted Nepali family.  We were so lucky, as we traveled on a relatively large mini-van (not as large as in the US, but definitely larger than the one we took last year!) up and down the winding hilly roads.  The entire team was definitely refreshed by the change of pace in Pokhara - clean air, less traffic, an even slower pace than Kathmandu.  I think everyone was marveling at the beautiful scenery of the surrounding village that we went to - and because this is the agricultural season, there were numerous field workers who were farming and harvesting the rice fields.  It's crazy to imagine the hard lives of these workers as they toil in the HOT sun in humid weather.  I'm actually hoping that we will have the chance to experience such farming - because we are working in this village, it would be helpful to us outsiders at least to have a taste of their daily lives. 

Yesterday, we went on our first real "trek" - we walked up into the hills to get to a remote village which is located in a "jungle" area - not jungle like you'd see in the Amazon, but more like a remote forested area.  And wow, I am out of shape!  We had a great time crossing a river (which was luckily in lower tide), and the students of course got in a huge water fight!  I think the villagers were amused by their raucous behavior - they were hilarious!  And, the trek up the hills were definitely tiring and unrelenting, but we were rewarded at the top with a Fanta and a view of the most beautiful rainbow I have ever seen in my entire life.  I tried to capture it on camera, but it's nothing compared to my mind's eye.  What an amazing symbol of hope - for this trip, for this organization, and for this country.

We went to this village to check out the site of our newest computer center that we will be building.  There is already one in the previous village that I mentioned, and it has been such a huge success in exposing villagers to technology and providing them opportunity for further educational opportunities (as computer learning is a requirement for passing their SLC and access is quite difficult to come by).  So, we are excited to help build this new center, or at least contribute to its development.   

Today, Mike's students have gone off to stay in the village in home stays - they are going to have a tremendous experience staying there, and I'm again impressed with their courage to try new things and step out of their comfort zones.  We really couldn't have asked for a better team!  And us adults are taking it a bit easier in this hot hot heat - but will be taking out our host family for dinner and some good Nepali dancing!  It'll be fun, for sure.  =)

The next few days are packed as well and there is still more to tell - but this entry has gotten way too long!  I will write more later, but props to you if you made it to the bottom of this entry!  Hope all is well back at home!


Monday, March 17, 2008

Hoops for Nepal

Mike and I are leading a team of friends and Mike's students to Nepal this summer from July 5-26 tentatively. (For details, look below)



In an effort to fund our trip and provide assistance to a local Nepali NGO (hopefornepal.org), a group that we are serving and teaming up with there, we've put together a fun NCAA Bracket Challenge for us with a great prize, iPod-Touch (ooooh....ahhhhh).

iPod Touch 8 GB

We need your help. Would you participate and help raise funds for this great cause?

• Site: ESPN Bracket Challenge
• Password: "hope4nepal"
• Entrance fee: $50 (per entry)
• 1st Prize: iPod Touch (8GB)
• Deadline: March 20, THU - 10 AM

Invite your friends/co-workers

You contribution is Tax Deductible

Payment Info:
• Payable to: "Boston Trinity Academy"
• Memo: "Nepal"
• Mailing Address: "Hoop for Nepal, c/o D. Lee" - 24 Dalrymple St. Unit 2, Jamaica Plain, MA 02130

Trip Description:
This is the first service-learning trip that will bring selected Boston Trinity Academy students and faculty members, and chaperons and volunteers from Highrock Covenant Church of Brookline to Nepal to work on community development projects in partnership with HOPE Initiative Nepal, a local Nepali non-governmental organization.

The community development projects consist of four parts: gathering footage and research to create an educational video documentary about Nepal, supporting a HOPE operated orphanage (HOPE House) in the capital city of Kathmandu, setting up a second HOPE operated village computer education center in a remote farming village in Pokhara, and developing a cultural and language exchange program for local village schools. The trip is tentatively scheduled July 5 to July 25, 2008.

A local Nepali family who operates HOPE and its orphanage will host the students, chaperons and volunteers. The group will spend the first part of the trip in Kathmandu, the capital city, working with orphans and the last part of the trip in a farming community of Pokhara working on other service and development projects.


Have questions? Feel free to comment!  Hope you'll be able to support us in this great effort.  =)


Tuesday, February 26, 2008

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, donutcrumb!  =)

Thanks for being the best husband a girl could ever ask for.


Thursday, August 02, 2007

Time to Say Goodbye!

I have arrived back in Thailand – and it is incredible that my time in Nepal has already come to an end.  The rest of the team (minus Salina) will be leaving Nepal tomorrow so please pray for a safe journey for all of them!  And Salina will be staying behind for another week or so to finish off her work at a local Nepali health clinic, so pray that she will be able to finish off her time there strongly as well! 

So many thoughts … so few brain cells

When asked by relatives about my experience in Nepal, I’m reduced to these lame, lackluster answers.  The truth is, I have no idea how to process everything I’ve experienced in the short week and a half that I was in Nepal.  We’ve done so much – from clothes distribution to health assessments to teaching to interviews with internally displaced people to spending time with HOPE’s orphans (ohmygosh, they’re so cute!).  But the one thing we didn’t have much time to do is really reflect and think about these experiences.  It’s felt like a whirlwind of a trip – so I am glad I have these few days in Bangkok for the beginnings of some downtime before starting work again on Monday (ick).

How do you process extreme poverty and suffering?  Mike, Jane and I had this conversation right before I left Nepal yesterday – and we didn’t conclude with any answers.  The poverty that we have witnessed is beyond anything that we could ever claim to relate to – visiting widows in their tiny one bedroom homes where they barely fit themselves, their children, and essentially all of their worldly possessions; seeing the suffering of families after being torn out of their community due to fear and insecurity due to war; hearing about the grief and hopelessness that so many experience daily due to the murder of a loved one and the disappointment in being entrapped in a system that lacks justice and protective aid; looking into the faces of the orphans and thinking about how they have experienced more grief and trauma in their mere five to six years of life than one should experience in an entire lifetime… how do you even begin to think about these things, and where do you even begin to help? 

And yet we’re promised hope …

Last week, I made everyone on our team sum up their experience in Nepal up to that point in one to three words (a training technique that we use at work a lot – which was received with lots of friendly groans from my teammates).  The word I came up with was “hope” (the double entendre with the HOPE Initiative was aptly pointed out by Jenn – I hadn’t even realized it!).  It’s such a great word – but also one of those words that feel kind of fluffy and elusive – because what does it mean, really?  It’s not something that can be experienced with our five senses – but yet, it sums up why we do not throw our hands up in surrender.  When I think of hope, I’m reminded of the encouragement in 2 Corinthians 4:18 that reminds us to fixing our eyes on not what is seen, but rather what is unseen.  

The cool thing is that God definitely provided us with lots of hope in seen ways too to encourage us to persist in this journey – from hearing a young girl from a displaced and impoverished family say that her experience makes her want to study hard to be a doctor and serve the underserved to hearing the laughter of the HOPE orphans as they learn to sing “Shoo Fly, Don’t Bother Me” –  all this reminds me of how important it is to not get overwhelmed by everything that we’ve experienced on this trip.  God is already there loving and caring for the people there – we just need to make ourselves available to be a part of the work that He is already doing.  And given the opportunity, I hope that with the bit of survey work that we've already done on this trip, we can be a part of the efforts to relieve poverty and bring holistic health and wellness to the people of Nepal (and elsewhere too!).  And I am definitely honored to have partnered already with our amazingly talented team too!    

So this is probably enough pontificating from me tonight – but I’ll try and post with pictures tomorrow!  Thanks for reading!



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